More travel

Since we returned from Boston in early October, I've taken three other trips, two to Californa. The first in October to visit my daughter at Pepperdine for parents' weekend, and the second for an event my husband was involved in honoring military members from our area of San Diego. And now we've just returned from Thanksgiving with the family in Indiana. 

It sounds like we have become quite the jet setters, but we are frugal travelers and mostly travel for family events. Both of the California trips were extremely short - in fact, I was only gone one night when I went to see my daughter in the LA area. I flew in super early on Saturday and flew out late on Sunday. And when we went to San Diego early in November, we flew in late on a Friday and left early on Sunday, so we really were there less time than the first trip, if you don't count sleeping. 

Both of these short trips were occasions to reune with loved ones. The visit to our eldest daughter in LA was a time of one-on-one visiting that warmed my heart. As a condition of being a mother, I have all kinds of worry and concern for each child, and spending quality time, however brief, helps ease those anxieties for a time.

Our second trip to San Diego gave us the opportunity to see some of the Navy friends we didn't see last spring. I am still mourning the friendships we left behind in San Diego, and by visiting often, we are keeping them alive. I am a little afraid we are going to start to wear out our welcome with all of these visits, but every time we stay with someone different, and the brevity of our stays leaves us longing for more time, instead of feeling relieved to be heading home. 

The trip to Indiana was much longer - one of the longest vacations we've had in years. We flew in the Friday before Thanksgiving and stayed until the Saturday after.  The first weekend was spent in South Bend, for what my husband would like to be an annual affair - the Notre Dame - Boston College game. We rented an Airbnb, bought up 10 football tickets, and reserved a parking spot for a tailgater - those were the big ticket items. Flying in a week before Thanksgiving saved us money on airline tix, as did leaving on Saturday. All the kids and my brother-in-law and second son's girlfriend from Maine also joined us. The Airbnb was just big enough, had an easy-light fireplace, nice kitchen, a pretty, big front yard, and a hot tub, which was the source of much loud laughter after the game, when everyone was frozen to the bone. I was especially pleased with the rental house because the past few times I have rented places for graduations or games, either the neighborhoods have been questionable or the houses tiny. The worst was our hotel in Maine.  This time I won the pick - the street looked lovely with pine trees covered in snow, the house itself was nice, and the owners left behind nice touches like fresh coffee cake and coffee and tea, and even made up an extra bed for us. 

The weekend with the whole crowd was full of fun and laughter - everyone had been looking forward to this weekend, and even the frigid temperatures and half a foot of snow couldn't dampen everyone's spirits. The game ended with an ND victory, which was a perk, but I didn't pay any attention to the game. I was thrilled to meet up with two of my good friends from my college running days. We all have these young adult children now and thus have more freedom to travel about, so we are talking about a 50th birthday celebration this summer. We haven't been able to hit on dates or a region yet, so we'll see if the summer holds more travel opportunities. 

After a great game on Saturday, followed by a big feast for dinner with one of my husband's college friends - it was an impromptu reunion weekend - and then a beautiful Mass on Sunday, we tidied up the house and said good bye, leaving with some good memories, and hopefully not forgetting anything. 

The next stoop was my parents' house for the rest of the week. The weather was much more temperate there, even just 3 hours further south. Our first day was a recovery day - a long walk on the farm, a trip to Nana's famous Goodwill, a heart stew supper. The next day we drove to one of the state parks famous for its covered bridge. We meant to take a shortish hike, about 2-3 miles, but ended up starting off on a different trail - the horse trail, which led us on a much longer hike of 5- 6 miles. After the first mile or two, the terrain, barren trees, and fallen leaves all looked about the same. 

I'm out of time and the month ends in an hour, so I'm going to end this post here - more to come next month...

Rah, rah, the gang's all here!

At halftime

The third quarter

The next morning at the airbnb.

 

Seeing the sites before heading south

The Goodwill haul

State park bound

Fossil imprints

A brand new calf

Exploring the back field

Nana has bathrobes for everyong

A Weekend in Maine, then back to Boston

 October Travelogue, Part II

After covering a good part of Boston on foot, (Did I mention I have been shopping for attractive, comfortable walking shoes for some time? I can't seem to find them. So, much to my daughter's chagrin, I wore my tennis shoes), we headed in a different direction on Saturday. 

The morning began slowly: we walked the cousins' dog through a walk, then picked up breakfast sandwiches at the corner shop, and had a leisurely visit over coffee with the teen cousins still in town. Then we loaded up in their borrowed cars to head north for a weekend in Portland, Maine.

The drive is about ninety minutes up the highway lined with autumn glory. Our first stop, after the bathroom, was Len Libby candies. They are famous for their 1700 pound chocolate moose, standing in a lake of blue chocolate since 1999. They are also famous for their caramel taffy, which is why we stopped. We've become addicted to it after our son's girlfriend started bringing it to us when she visited. We loaded up on taffy, candy, and some tchotkes - a Christmas ornament and a stuffed moose for LK's friend - before heading into Portland.

There we waited 30+ minutes for lunch at Gilberts.  Apparently a cruise ship had recently pulled into port, so we were competing with other tourists who heard this was the best place for chowder and lobster rolls. As diners left, they'd smile at all us waiters and encourage us with a friendly "It's worth the wait!"  And indeed it was. We finally got a table on the deck out back on the harborside, which was chilly but sunny. I had the appetizer sized crab cakes, which I shared, and the chowder. My daughter ordered the chowder in the bread bowl, which we shared. And everyone else ordered lobster rolls, which were loaded with lobster meat and very little mayonnaise. Just what you hope they should be.  (The kids were loving oyster crackers, which we haven't eaten in years, so I bought some at the grocery the other day to eat with butternut squash soup, since it's now cool enough for soups and stews) After filling up, we strolled around Portsmouth and popped in and out of shops. We were looking for a gift to take back to our brother and sister-in-law, new shoes, and anything eye catching. I found some books I wanted to buy but put them back because I didn't have space in my bag or my brain. I had bought a used copy of Wendell Berry's The Unsettling of America at Brattle's, but I wish I had gone ahead and bought the copy of Celia Thaxter's short stories that the Portsmouth bookstore had on sale. I'm not that familiar with her writing, but one of her garden essays is included in our Nature Writing textbook, so I'd like to learn more. I think she's one of those early 20th c. women writers whose work wavers between sentimental and scientific.  In the interest of representing women in the nature writing genre, some authors like Thaxter and Gene Stratton Porter, whose voice is a bit dated, are being revived. 

I also wanted to buy a novel about Winslow Homer, because I was hoping we were going to be able to walk by his house on Prouts Neck, but the trail was closed because someone had fallen off the cliff and died recently. 

Instead we left Portsmouth having purchased nothing but some bracelets from a street vendor for the girls, and instead went to see the Portland Head Light at Cape Elizabeth just down the road. The lighthouse and the view were beautiful, and we took a lot of photos, along with everyone else, including several bridal parties who were taking advantage of the golden hour for a photo session after their October nuptials. 

As the sunset waned, we left to go to the girlfriend's house for dinner with her parents. They treated us to an authentic Maine meal with oysters and fresh lobster complete with bibs and blueberry pie for dessert. We had a great time visiting around their backyard fire pit and laughing over great food and wine. 

The one and only dim spot of the trip was the hotel I booked. Note to self: hotels in Maine book up in October. I had initially been shopping out Air BnB properties, but when we decided to only stay one night, I decided to find a local hotel on the beach. Here is where I should have booked early. The place I found was a great location, even though our son's girlfriend was a little worried when she heard it was Old Orchard Beach, apparently the Coney Island of Maine. But we were a little north of the Ferris wheel and carney rides. Unfortunately, the hotel gave us the wrong room, with only 1 bed, when I had booked a suite with 2 beds and pull out. And since it was late check-in, no one was at the property to help us out -- and no other hotels in a 30 minute radius had rooms. The two boys stayed with our friends, the two girls and I slept in the one uncomfortable double bed, and my husband spent a miserable night on a slim couch with no sheets, only the bedspread from the hotel bed, which I always hate to touch.  The next morning the clerk who checked us out couldn't help us with refunding the cost of the larger room, and she said she had had a number of unhappy customers that morning.  Eventually, I did get a credit for the price difference, but I had to call several times to get an answer. 

Happily, the hotel was right across the street from the beach, and the tide was out. So when I finally decided to stop trying to sleep just before dawn, I was able to get up and take a long, beautiful walk on the deserted beach before everyone else woke up.  They joined me for a bit before we had to get ready for Mass. 

After Mass and a delicious breakfast at the C Salt Market, we waved goodbye to Portland and headed back south, making a stop not too far down the road at an apple orchard where we picked 30 some pounds of tart, crisp apples - Cortland, Macintosh, Jonagold, yellow delicious, and something else I can't remember. Yum.  We photographed our way through the orchard before returning to the car with our harvest and some cider and apple cinnamon donuts. 

That evening back in Cambridge, we cooked in - Dan grilled steaks for the cousins, and we made apple crisp for dessert.  That night, filled with fresh air and antioxidants and exhausted from the short night, we all slept well. 

Our last day in Boston was museum day. We started with bagels and coffee, and then visited a friend at Boston College, She gave us a tour of campus and showed us around the track before having to meet her team for lunch. I regretted that we didn't bring her candy from Len Libby's or something from Austin. I am not a natural gift giver, but while I'm writing this, I'm sorry we didn't come bearing an offering of some sort. I guess we thought we'd take her to breakfast or lunch, but she was not an early riser and already had the lunch meeting. 

The rest of the morning was spent at the Boston Museum of Fine Art. It was free day for the holiday, which was good for saving money, but bad for having to wait in line. The line moved fairly quickly, but it ate into the time we had to see the museum, so we missed a lot of it. Highlights: the Obama's presidential portraits were on tour and were displayed in their own gallery to highlight the work of the artists, Kehinde Wiley and Amy Sherald. 

LK loved the Egyptian art and artifacts, especially the shawabti, the little doll effigy of a queen. We also made it through the American impressionists - Mary Cassatt and friends - but we missed all the European art from the Renaissance to contemporary.  Nonetheless, we saw enough to satisfy and nearly to overwhelm.  Definitely a museum that takes several visits to enjoy. Fortunately, our son bought himself a membership, so he can return often. 

After a restorative but boring lunch of sandwiches, we did some walking along the Boston Harbor before spending about an hour at the Aquarium - again we had free tickets. Aquariums are all very similar to me, and thus not very high on my list of things to do, but it was something the girls wanted to see. They love sea turtles, and two swam around the big tank at the center of this aquarium. 

By the time we finished there, evening was upon us, and a little sprinkle of rain. Our son had Chinatown on the schedule for dinner, the Emperor's Garden, which is located inside of an old, grand theater. The place was huge, and empty, which doesn't always bode well for the cuisine, but it was fabulous. We all shared plates and laughed and feasted our way through our last meal before our early flight the next day. It was a celebratory ending to a memorable family vacation. 

The Chocolate Moose at Len Libby's

Chowder and lobster rolls at Gilberts in Portland

Portland Head Lighthouse

Never enough lobster

Mercy Otis Warren, my favorite American historian

The Schwabti

This one is titled "Brother and Sister"

Me at the end of the day and first thing in the morning...

Can you see the seahoreses?

Till next time, Boston!