Have been reading children’s literature lately, two books about very different childhoods. First I finished The Great Gilly Hopkins, the story of the flower child’s daughter who is dropped into foster care. Gilly is passed around from family to family and learns to be tough and heartless to survive the heartbreak of being unwanted. Her final foster home is with 3 other “rejects” of society, who actually learn to love her, so that when her grandmother discovers her existence and comes to get her, Gilly doesn’t want to leave. Her grandmother is a lonely, fussy old woman, but because of her loneliness, she is in a way just as needy as Gilly. So even though Gilly’s mother continues to reject her, the book ends on a hopeful note with Gilly finding a settled place and a purpose. Written in the 70’s, this is one of those realistic Generation X chapter books so popular then. I went through a Katherine Patterson phase in grade school, along with a Judy Blume phase, a Lois Lowry phase, and a S. E. Hinton phase – all edgy, naturalistic (ok, maybe the paranormal stuff in Lowry was fantastic, but it was realistically portrayed), issue oriented books. (I also went through a Narnia phase, an L. M. Montgomery phase,an Alcott phase, a horse book phase, etc.,so I had balance. My own boys prefer fantasy and Brian Jacques type books, which is just fine with me, although I know there can be hidden ideologies there, too.) I had forgotten about the racial tension in this book, and I think I was oblivious to the pathos of the foster mother’s affection for the mentally disabled foster boy. I certainly did not tear up when I read this book as a kid – the only book I remember crying over was Gone With the Wind. (And for a long time I didn’t cry during movies, preferring to remain stoic and impartial, as a rejection of my mother’s pitiful sobbing. Then the floodgates were opened one day when I was pregnant, nursing a yearling, and holding a toddler while watching Farmer Hoggett dance when Babe is accepted into the sheep herding competition – a triumphant moment in film!) But Gilly’s encounter with Wordsworth through the blind African American neighbor, Mr. Randolph, was beautiful, if a bit contrived, as was the honesty of her 6th grade teacher in reaction to Gilly’s insult and the final goodbye of Trotter; all had me choked up. Although Gilly was not an admirably behaved child, she was smart and brave and recognized her worth when she finally believed she was needed.
In complete contrast is Linnets and Valerians, written by Elizabeth Goudge only about 15 years earlier, but set 60 years earlier. I’ve barely begun this story of 4 British siblings, left by their India-going father with a fussy grandmother, not too unlike Gilly’s grandmother, perhaps: a don’t touch/be quiet grandmother. The book begins with them escaping from their grandmother’s, “borrowing” a horse and cart, and tearing off across the English countryside, until, providentially, they are brought by the pony to their elderly uncle’s vicarage, a dusty, castlelike house with a kindly, dwarfish caretaker who talks to bees and other animals. The uncle doesn’t like children, but he likes to classically educate them, so the four are allowed to stay. They aren’t punished for their flight from their grandmother, their theft, or their snooping around the village, as long as they come to their lessons. With the tone of a fairy tale, this book is a child’s fantasy of a perfect childhood: freedom to ramble interesting places, no meddling adults, no unbearable consequences for poor behavior. Gilly watches Sesame Street with her foster brother in the afternoons; the Linnets run around quaint villages and have tea. I wanted that latter kind of childhood, although reading about people like Gilly maybe made me appreciate what I did have: freedom to ride a bike around country roads, a mother who let us leave blanket tents up for days, lots of art supplies and pets, a vacant lot and a pond next door, horses to pat in the field behind our yard. Although I’ve tried not to overschedule my own kids, I know they lack many of those freedoms. And when they do have free time, they want to play Wii or watch a movie. Will they feel their lack or will they remember fondly what freedoms they do have?
