My husband has been on a trip to East Africa, a trip I wish I could have gone along on, but found the prospect too daunting because of the short duration and vast logistics of his travel plans. The base he's visiting has potable water trucked in for drinking and laundry. It's hard to sustain our way of life there; it's easier to live in a grass hut and become resistant to the parasites that live in the water, if you don't perish first. The children beg for sweets, but if you give them too many, then will their teeth rot?
So Africa is still on my list of places to see before I die. It used to be tops of the list when I was a kid because it had so many animals - one, big, open air zoo, right. But now I want to witness the scenes where
Cry, the Beloved Country, Left to Tell, Out of Africa, and even the Alexander McCall series, are set, although movies like
Hotel Rwanda and
Last King of Scotland (did I mention it stars James McEvoy?) highlight the dangers.
Last year at a cub scout camp I met a woman whose parents were missionaries in Africa, just like in the
Poisonwood Bible, about which I had mixed emotions although it fed my fascination with missionaries and the children of missionaries (Could I embrace deprivation and find the faith/bravado to drop everything and go where we aren't necessarily welcome?). This woman didn't wear shoes until she was sent away to boarding school in about 5th grade. I didn't get to know her well enough to pry as much as I'd like, but she had mixed emotions about the experience.
But then what kid doesn't have mixed emotions about their parents' way of life?
My sister's friend is living in Africa, in Rwanda, and writes about it
here.